Monday, October 17, 2011

Flying.

Random pictures took this morning.
What a Monday blue.
Okay. Schools as usual.
Stressful.
Exam in 4 weeks.
I can't believe it's so fast.
Oh god. Let pray the Buddha's foot!

Well today.
Would like to talk about something.
That not really bother me.
But at the same time.
It's kinda confusing, irritating, mixed up.
Just feel like talking about it.
P/S : deactivate my Facebook account.
Addicted to it somehow.
Have to go for 'rehab' for a moment.

Today, going thru some irritating and uncomfortable moment.
I've the patience towards it.
But somehow, I might burst inside my own self.
That's terrible.
Well, related to my previous post.
But somehow connected to a very obvious surface that shows clearly how people nowadays acted.
Friend with the rich.
Talking about rich.
What do you meant by rich?

They've big cars? Expensive cars?
Or big house? Buy expensive bags?
This is what we called rich?
Maybe or maybe not.

Some people, actually not that rich.
Just how they act.
For example a girl from lower six.
She's not as rich as her friends from college.
But she acted like she's super rich.
P/S: having an iphone or blackberry doesn't categories you into rich group.
Let's get over the lower six girl.
Besides her, there's an A girl.
She looks normal.
She looks friendly.
But she's very particular about her friends, how they act and wear.
There's another B girl.
She is very good in socializing.
Okay, admit I'm sucks in socializing but somehow people thinks I'm a very fierce person and doesn't talk.
P/S : I talked quite lot and I make friends. I'm not fierce just I don't smile like a retard.
People always judge something from the cover.
Not from the content.
You never gone thru you never knew what's happening inside and how the real person acted.
After I approached A and B, I found out that before this my judgement is so wrong.
I never knew that.
I was shocked.
Dad was right.
Fake friends everywhere.
You can't manage all of them once.
All you can do is see thru and get to know them after you knew them.

Is it rich people only be friend with rich people?
Oh well.
Maybe. Or not.
Rich people is also a normal human being.
Can't they just be normal for a bit?
Go to a normal shop.
Buy normal things.
Do normal stuff.
And not go to saloon to wash their hairs every single day.
And the saloon have to be 'branded'.

Maybe they are born to be like this.
I was like that last time.
Due surrounding.
Family background.
After a falls, we jump back to a middle class.
Being a middle class is not a bad thing after all.
(:

I asked my dad.
Me : why you don't let me play golf?
Dad : why you wanna play golf?
Me : well I don't know. Many people play golf.
Dad : let me tell you something. About 90% golfer play golf just to make business partners, they not just to play golf because of their interest or sports.
They think golf is expensive stuff, can show off that they played golf.
But actually only few golfers that are sincerely that play golf for fun and sports.
Me : then like you ' the so-called-sincered-golfers'? XD
Dad : yes, most of the people plays like shit. They just go there and heehaa chit chat drink beers and get to knows business partners 拍马屁.
Me : oh.. Then got related to me for playing golf?
Dad : if you mixed with those rich's guys son/daughter, you will be just like them- materialistic. What they wear or buy is only branded stuff. Show off that their dad is rich and famous.
Me : Oh..
Dad : golf club is a very complicated place. Lots of rumors, talked behind others, 2 faced people.. A lot more than you can imagine.
So, is better to stay out from them and mind our own business. Be normal for a bit.
Me : Oh.. Then why you still wanna go there?
Dad : because I'm experienced.
Me : Oh.. Means you're old la?
Dad Speechless.
Me : or you don't wanna buy golf set for me because it's expensive?
Dad speechless.
HAHAHA
Oh well, from my dad I learned something.
Well we can see anyway how they live.
We don't have to go high class restaurant to eat your breakfast or any meals.
Normal has it advantages sometimes.

Dad always said people always see others driving big cars, living in a big house means they're rich.
But do you know they don't talk to each other and always fight?
Like one of my aunt.
A real good example.
Cover is beautiful but content is sucks.

Stop comparing ( reminds myself )
You're living in a good life with protective dad.
Teaching you a good lesson for what he'd learned.
Don't have to show off that you're rich.
Real rich never show their true identity.
Let other be who they wanna be, we can't stop them - my dad.

Learning is a process.

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